Dating coaching

1:1 dating & relationship coaching

10-session transformational program

Rewire your relationship patterns so you feel chosen, valued and safe.


  • ⁠10 x 60-minute private coaching sessions via Zoom.
  • Combine personality types and attachment styles to uncover insights into your behavioral patterns.
  • ⁠Coaching by Jessica Alderson, a top relationship expert featured in Forbes, Business Insider, Vogue, the New York Times, Men’s Health and Cosmopolitan.
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Love is a journey, let us guide you

Transform your love life in 10 hours

Coaching overview

  • • Identify and rewire the limiting beliefs that have held you back in love.
  • • Address deep-rooted emotional wounds, paving the way for healthier relationships.
  • • Gain clarity on your relationship needs so you can attract a partner who aligns with your values.
  • • Learn how to communicate and uphold healthy boundaries without fear or guilt.
  • • Master techniques that foster understanding, trust, and emotional connection.
  • • Recognise and transform unhelpful emotional patterns to cultivate self-assurance and inner peace.
  • • Replace old habits with intentional behaviours that foster balance and growth.

Benefits

  • • Build meaningful connections from a place of confidence, emotional balance, and true self-worth.
  • • Recognise and release patterns that no longer serve you and step into the love you truly deserve.
  • • Develop presence and emotional intelligence in relationships without playing games.
  • • Make decisions from strength, not insecurity, so you’re in control of your love life.
  • • Learn to see setbacks as a chance to heal, evolve, and build stronger connections.
  • • Align with someone who mirrors your depth, ambition, and vision for the future.
  • • Say goodbye to settling and choose a relationship where you’re valued and understood.
  • • Lean into connections where passion and commitment go hand in hand.

Testimonials

  • • “As a classic avoidant, I always kept people at arm’s length without even realising it. Jess didn’t just give me ‘dating advice’, she helped me understand why I was wired this way and how to change these patterns. I went from pushing away intimacy to actually embracing it. Now I’m in the best relationship I’ve ever had.” — Mark P., San Francisco
  • • “I’ve built companies, led teams, and achieved everything I set out to—except when it came to relationships. Jess showed me that my approach to love needed to evolve. She helped me see my attachment triggers and how they played out in dating. Within weeks, I was showing up differently. I stopped pushing my feelings away and started attracting partners who are good for me.” — David L., New York
  • • “I thought I was just ‘bad at dating’—turns out, I was repeating patterns I didn’t even realise were there. Jessica’s coaching helped me connect the dots between my personality type, my attachment style, and the kind of relationships I was attracting. It was eye-opening and, honestly, life-changing. I finally feel like I understand myself in love, and that’s more powerful than I ever expected.” — Rachel M., London

Let’s work together to unlock your potential

We combine attachment styles and personality types to give you a truly personalized approach to love. By understanding your emotional wiring and your unique traits, we will create a dating strategy that’s all about you. No more feeling stuck or guessing what works. Together, we’ll dive deep into how your attachment style and personality impact your relationships, helping you connect with the right people and build meaningful connections. Prices for your 10-session transformational program start at $3,000.

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