35 Things to Know When Dating an ENTJ
ENTJs can struggle when it comes to dating. We have extremely high standards in all areas of our lives, and dating is no exception. Plus, we have a lot going on, and we only spend time with people we really like. Intense, deep connections are important to us, but we don’t find them all that often.
ENTJs can struggle when it comes to dating. We have extremely high standards in all areas of our lives, and dating is no exception. Plus, we have a lot going on, and we only spend time with people we really like. Intense, deep connections are important to us, but we don’t find them all that often.
However, ENTJs are some of the most loyal and dynamic people you’ll ever meet. We are extremely logical and organized. So don’t expect us to just go with the flow – we will always have a plan. Ultimately, we like to be prepared.
In this post, we run through 35 things you need to know when dating an ENTJ. So, if you’re dating an ENTJ or are curious about what makes them tick, read on.
1. We are natural-born leaders.
We have a clear vision, and we aren’t afraid to share it with others. Additionally, we are comfortable taking charge and being in control. This is one of our defining characteristics – our ability to take charge and get things done.
2. We are extremely confident.
We know what we want, and we go after it with enthusiasm and vigor. This confidence can sometimes be misread as arrogance, but it’s really just our way of being sure of ourselves. More often than not, we are very able people, and we have a deep-seated belief that we can achieve our goals.
3. We are very logical and analytical.
We see this as one of our greatest strengths. Our analytical nature means that we are excellent at problem-solving and are always looking for ways to improve things. This also means that we can be quite critical – both of ourselves and of others.
4. We can be direct.
We say what we mean, and we mean what we say. We’re not the type to beat around the bush or play games – we just say it like it is. This can sometimes come across as being rude or insensitive, but it’s really just our way of communicating. If you’re dating an ENTJ, expect them to be honest in the way they communicate with you.
5. We are extremely driven.
We have a clear vision and are always working towards our goals. If one thing’s for sure, it’s that we’re not the type of people who are content to sit back and let things happen. We have clear milestones that we want to hit, and we hold people accountable, including ourselves. This can sometimes make us seem bossy or overbearing, but it’s just our way of ensuring things get done.
6. We are always looking for ways to improve.
We’re constantly trying to find ways to do things better. This applies to both our personal lives and our work lives. If you’re dating an ENTJ, expect them to be constantly trying to find ways to improve themselves through personal development.
7. We like to be in control.
We prefer to be the ones calling the shots and making the decisions. This doesn’t mean that we’re always bossy or domineering, but it does mean that we like to be in charge. We like to be in control and make things happen.
8. We love a good challenge.
We’re always up for a challenge, both in our personal lives and in our professional lives. This is because we thrive on competition and are always looking for ways to push ourselves. If you’re dating an ENTJ, expect them to constantly be challenging themselves.
9. We are often very successful.
Our drive, determination, and natural ability to take charge often leads to success. We’re the type of people who are always moving forward and achieving our goals. This is largely due to our consistency, determination, and resilience. Staying motivated comes naturally to ENTJs, and we get back up when we get knocked down.
10. We find it hard to deal with our emotions.
Our logical nature means that we often find it difficult to deal with our emotions. We’re not the type of people who are in touch with our feelings. Instead, we prefer to intellectualize our emotions and deal with them in a logical way. This can sometimes make us seem insensitive or unemotional, but it’s really just our way of coping.
11. We aren’t the best at expressing our emotions.
Because we’re not in touch with our emotions, we’re not the best at expressing them. We might find it difficult to understand and express our feelings, which can sometimes make us seem distant or uncaring.
12. We are extremely independent.
We like to be the master of our own destiny, and we don’t like to rely on others. As a result, we’re very independent people who are used to doing things our own way. This can sometimes make us seem like we’re not interested in other people, but really, we just prefer to be self-sufficient.
13. We can be very intense.
Our intensity can sometimes be a lot to handle. We’re the type of people who are always on the go, and we have a lot of energy. We’re passionate, and we put our all into everything we do. If you’re dating an ENTJ, they may come across as intense in certain situations.
14. We are extremely loyal.
We are incredibly loyal partners. Once we’ve committed to someone, we will do everything in our power to make the relationship work. We take our responsibilities very seriously and will always try our best to meet your needs. Plus, ENTJs tend to be very generous individuals.
15. We are always planning for the future.
This is both a good and a bad thing. On the one hand, it means that we’re always looking ahead and thinking about what’s next. On the other hand, it can mean that we’re not always present in the moment because we can get lost in our thoughts.
16. We are the ultimate perfectionists.
We strive for perfection in everything we do, and we have extremely high standards in both our personal and professional lives. As a result, we are always thinking about how we can make things better or more efficient. If you’re dating an ENTJ, be prepared for some perfectionist tendencies!
17. We are hard workers.
We know that in order to achieve great things, we need to put in a lot of work. This is something that we accept, and we’re not looking to take shortcuts. We’re the type of people who are always hustling and grinding. ENTJs are known for being workaholics.
18. We are extremely organized.
This is one of our most defining traits. We like to have everything in its place, and we can get upset if this isn’t the case. Plus, we’re the type of people who are always making lists and updating our calendars. If you’re dating an ENTJ, expect them to always plan dates ahead of time.
19. We are creative in our own way.
While we’re usually not the most artistic people, we do have our own unique brand of creativity. We often come up with out-of-the-box solutions to problems. We’re also very good at seeing the potential in people and ideas.
20. We are always challenging the status quo.
We’re not the type of people who are content with things the way they are. As a result, we’re always looking for ways to change things for the better. We have a desire to change the world, and we understand that in order to do this, we have to shake things up.
21. We are often misunderstood.
Because we’re such complex people, we often get misunderstood. People might see us as unemotional or insensitive when really we’re just trying to process things in our own way. We are actually very emotional once you get to know us.
22. We aren’t the best at small talk.
We find small talk to be incredibly tedious, and we’re not the best at making it. We would much rather have conversations that are meaningful and substance. This can sometimes make us come across as aloof or uninterested.
23. We are always striving for growth.
We’re not the type of people who are content with staying the same. Instead, we’re always looking for ways to grow and improve. Whether it’s in our personal or professional lives, we’re always striving to reach new levels.
24. We are excellent at problem-solving.
If you have a problem, we’re the type of people you want to go to. We’re quick thinkers, and we’re always looking for solutions. We have a knack for seeing things from different perspectives, and this helps us find the best solution possible.
25. We can be very stubborn.
Our determination and stubbornness can be both a good and a bad thing. On the one hand, it means that we’re always fighting for what we believe in. On the other hand, it can mean that we’re unwilling to budge on our opinion, even in some cases when we might be wrong.
26. We are great at multitasking.
ENTJs are known for their ability to juggle multiple tasks at once. This is because we’re able to focus and stay organized even when things are chaotic. We’re also good at prioritizing and knowing what needs to be done first.
27. We don’t like to waste time.
We’re always trying to make the most of our time and hate wasting it. This is why we’re good at prioritizing what’s important to us. If you’re dating an ENTJ, there’s a good chance they really like you. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be spending time with you.
28. We are extremely focused.
When we set our sights on something, we’re able to laser focus in on it until we achieve it. This single-mindedness can sometimes make us seem like we’re not interested in anything else. However, we will always make time for the people we care about.
29. We like to be challenged.
We like to be challenged and enjoy intellectual stimulation. This is because we are constantly seeking to grow and learn. We love to debate and discuss. If you’re dating an ENTJ, be prepared for a lot of intellectual conversations.
30. We are always looking out for people we care about.
Even though we might not show it, we’re always looking out for the people we care about. We want to make sure they’re happy and safe. If you’re dating an ENTJ, you can count on them to stick by you through thick and thin.
31. We make very calculated decisions.
When it comes to decision-making, we are very logical and rational. We take all the different variables into account, and we carefully weigh up the risks and rewards. Ultimately, we want to make sure that we are making the best decision possible.
32. We take a while to open up.
It takes us a while to open up and truly trust people. We don’t feel comfortable sharing our personal thoughts and feelings unless we know you well. If you’re dating an ENTJ, be patient with them and know that they will eventually open up to you.
33. We value intelligence.
We are attracted to people who are intelligent and can keep up with our fast-paced minds. Plus, we want a partner who can challenge us and keep us on our toes. If one thing’s for sure, we are turned off by people who are close-minded or who aren’t interested in learning new things.
34. We are reliable.
ENTJs are reliable people who can be counted on to follow through on their commitments. This is something that is very important to us, and we take it very seriously. If you’re dating an ENTJ, you can count on them to be reliable and dependable.
35. We won’t settle.
ENTJs won’t settle for anything less than a truly special connection. We want the best of the best, and we’re prepared to wait for it. In fact, we would rather be single than settle for someone who isn’t a good match for us.
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We hope this provides insight into what makes ENTJs tick and helps make your relationship a little smoother. Remember, we’re all unique individuals, so not everything on this list will apply to every ENTJ – but it should give you a good starting point.
If you haven’t already, be sure to check out our other post on ENTJ compatibility. Or perhaps you’re an ENTJ, and you’d like your partner to understand you on a deeper level? Share this post with them and see what they think.
